Monday, October 7, 2019

Rock bottom? I hope so...

While waiting for our new house we did an extended stay at Extended Stay America this summer, we met some interesting people, there was this one guy, in particular, let's just call him Mr. P.

Mr. P is (was) a sheet metal contractor, most days he would start drinking when the liquor store opened and continued on. Mr. P was (is) a decent guy with a massive drinking problem. He had no driver's license because he'd had 4 DUIs and had spent a year in jail after his 4th.

He had gotten divorced, split the proceeds of the house with his ex-wife and plenty of cash in the bank. When we met him he'd been at Extended Stay for a couple of months, he was accompanied by his dog Rocky and a geriatric cat. I didn't see much of the cat but Rocky was a great little dog, he was the clone of Eddie on Frasier. Rocky and Anze became pals.

As the weeks past, Mr. P drank more and more every day, to the point where he was slack-jawed by noon. A couple of construction guys rebuilding a Target store found him one night passed out in the parking lot with little Rocky watching over him. They helped him up and got him back to his room.

By the time we moved, we'd met his long-time friend B, another contractor who was trying to get Mr. P off the bottle and into rehab, if he started a rehab program the DMV would give him a restricted license and he could get back to work and start rebuilding his life. To this end, Mr. P bought a 5th wheel trailer, put a hitch on his Chevy pickup and was looking for a spot to park. Temporarily he parked the rig in the lot at Extended Stay. At that point, 5 weeks ago we moved into our house.

Yesterday, I had coffee with one of the guys I got to know at Extended Stay, here's what he told me happened.

A couple of homeless drunks started to sleep under Mr. P's 5th wheel, Mr. P befriended them, they started drinking together and he gave them the keys to his truck and trailer. They moved in. He also "loaned" them his debit card and his pin, party time ensued. Extended Stay got pissed and kicked him out. He moved into the trailer and was supposed to get it off the property ASAP. He had no license, one of the homeless guys volunteered to drive. Mr. P agreed and they decided it was such a great idea, that they ought to have a drink on it and did they ever.

The construction guys found Mr. P dead drunk in the lot, his wallet gone, his trailer gone, his 2-year-old Chevy pickup gone and so was little Rocky and the poor old cat.

With the help of his buddy B they tracked down the homeless drunks and got the rig back. The dirty bastards let little Rocky and the cat out and couldn't remember where. B helped Mr. P get the rig parked, got some food into him and stocked the trailer with enough food for a couple of days, put him to bed and left for work out of town.

The next day B got a call, Mr. P was in jail for his 5th DUI. He'd gotten drunk and decided to take a drive and see if he could find little Rocky and the poor cat. B got him bailed him out and he is awaiting a court date. In California, he'll go to jail again.

His dad is living alone in Michigan and has Alzheimer's, the old man is pushing 90, Mr. P will probably never see his father again. He has no relationship with his two kids or his one grandchild, his brother has washed his hands of him, the only person in his life now is his friend B.

I feel bad for him, but I feel worse for little Rocky and the poor cat.

4 comments:

  1. That is a modern tragedy. You wonder how many others are so hurt or broken.
    Powerful story Bob. Glad you've been able to get your new home under you.

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    1. As you may know,an Alcoholic, Druggie, Gay guy named Nils Johanson aka Mark Elliot and I created a Radio Talk Show called People Helping People. It aired mostly overnights in Windsor and Toronto from 1995 to 2015 when Mark retired. He died earlier this year. It's unlikely that anyone will do anything like it again because it never made any money. There are people I know who said it saved their lives and/or inspired them to seek help. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8B0PTbwPQ8&t=6s After I left, CHUM tried to syndicate it without success. Sure they got it on some stations but didn't sell it. Over the past 10 years or so, things have only gotten worse. Add Opioids and Vaping to Alcohol and Drugs. In Toronto Mark was the Go To Guy for Media on any Addiction Story. Although I think we made a difference, as a Radio Show it had limited appeal.

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    2. Joey Reynolds spent a lot of time on his syndicated show doing the same thing, Joey had overcome his problems and wasn't shy ab out his struggles on the radio.

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